Live True To Yourself Without Losing The People You Love
Something woke you up to life, and now you hear yourself say, “Who am I now?” and “When did I stop living for me?”
So many women in midlife and beyond ask:
“If this is my life, how do I want to live it?”
Maybe it started with a loss: a parent, a marriage, a chapter that ended. Maybe it was a birthday, a health scare, or simply a quiet moment when you looked around and wondered how you got here.
Some arrive tired. Some arrive fed up. Some just feel a gentle nudge that something needs to change. But they all reach these same questions.
And for so many of us who were raised to be “good,” the honest answer is: I’m not sure, because I’ve spent so long living for others.
If that’s true for you right now, that’s okay.
Here’s the exciting part: you get to decide what living life true to you means. And it isn’t too late to release what’s heavy, reclaim your light, and rise as the fullest expression of yourself.
Meet Laylani Colibri Jack (formerly Laura Jack)
Before I was a coach, a trainer, or an author, I was a daughter grieving, a woman searching, and a human learning how to feel.
In 2008, I lost my mother. Her death cracked something open in me, not just grief, but awakening.
Years later, in a moment when I felt lost and confused, I received a message that felt like both a whisper from my mom and a calling from my soul:
LOVE. loss. LOVE.
From that seed, everything grew.
I spent the first years finding my light again. Once I had, I began helping others do the same. I’ve supported thousands of people through the kind of loss that makes you question everything, as a coach, trainer, and speaker.
What I’ve seen again and again is that they weren’t broken. They were brokenhearted.
And underneath so much of their pain was another kind of loss: the loss of expectations. About who they would be. About how life would go. And often, the loss of who they were, as life changed in ways they did and didn’t expect.
I knew that loss too. Losing my mom changed everything I thought my life would be. For years, I kept showing up for everyone else while quietly wondering who I was underneath it all.
On my fortieth birthday, I made a commitment to myself: I will no longer abandon myself in service to others. Every day since, I’ve been learning to honor that promise. It hasn’t always been easy, because I’m also committed to honoring the people I love.
Today, I help women do the same: release what’s heavy, reclaim who they are, and rise as the fullest expression of themselves.
The LIGHT Method™
A transformational journey for women who are ready to stop abandoning themselves and live life true to who they are, without losing the people they love.
I was once told that you can only take others as far as you’re willing to go. So I went to the depths, and I will guide you step by step on a journey that took me years to walk myself.
Release what’s heavy: the grief, the expectations, and the old patterns of putting yourself last.
Reclaim your voice, your joy, and your aliveness from this broken-open place.
Rise as the fullest expression of yourself, at home, at work, and in the world.
This is where you come home to yourself.
In their own words…
Laylani has brought her work to teams at:
You don’t have to choose between loving them and being you.
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