Live Alive
From Love ● Through Loss ● To Love Again
Every human knows this journey. Most of us just don't have a guide for it.
Laylani Colibri Jack
Transformational Coach, Speaker, and bestselling author of
The Compassion Code (published as Laura Jack)
Something broke you open.
Maybe it was a loss. A relationship fracturing. Burnout from giving everything to everyone else for so long you forgot what it felt like to fill yourself back up.
Maybe it was a moment, quiet or earth shattering, when you realized you couldn't keep going the way you've been going.
And underneath all of it, there is a knowing:
I want to do better and be better… for myself, my family, and for the people I'm here to support.
That's why you're here. And that is exactly what this work is for.
Meet Laylani Colibri Jack (formerly Laura Jack)
Before I was a coach, a speaker, the author of The Compassion Code, or the founder of The LIGHT Method™ — I was a daughter grieving, a woman searching, and a human learning how to feel.
In 2008, I lost my mother. Her death cracked open something inside me — not just of grief, but of awakening.
Years later, in a moment when I felt lost and confused, I received a message that felt like both a whisper from my mom and a calling from my soul:
LOVE. loss. LOVE.
From that seed, everything grew.
Nearly two decades later, I've walked alongside hundreds of people through this journey — parents and partners, doctors and reverends, counselors and spiritual guides — people in the middle of the kind of loss that makes you question everything.
Not one of them came to me because of a job title.
They came because something broke them open. And they were ready.
Today, after years of evolution, we're creating LIGHThouses in the world: steady, heart-centered humans who shine their light at home, at work, and in their communities.
The LIGHT Method™
Release. Reclaim. Rise.
It's not just about surviving loss. It's about loving life after it.
A 9-month transformational journey for people who are ready to stop carrying what's heavy and start living fully. I will guide you step by step on a journey that took me almost 20 years.
Release the weight of unresolved grief. Reclaim your authentic self. Rise as the emotional leader your life has been waiting for — someone who handles what life throws at them with grace and ease, knows how to come back to center, and leads with love instead of fear.
For those called to guide others: this is where your healing becomes your gift.
Want Laylani to speak to your organization?
In times of disruption, loss, or change, teams need more than resilience training. They need to know how to acknowledge what's heavy and show up for each other without carrying the emotional weight.
International Best-Selling Book
The Compassion Code: How to Say the Right Thing When the Wrong Thing Happens
Most people care, but when someone is grieving or hurting, we freeze.
We worry we’ll say the wrong thing… so we say nothing at all.
This book changes that.
With real stories and practical tools, The Compassion Code helps you:
Navigate hard conversations with confidence and heart
Heal disconnection—starting with yourself
Become the person others can count on when life gets hard without burning out
Available now: Paperback • Kindle • Audiobook →