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You’ve been through loss.

Now you’re feeling called to live, not just exist, and to help others do the same.

When you’re ready to move through your grief, find your light again, and turn what you’ve lived through into your calling, let’s chat!

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Laylani Colibri Jack
Grief Coach, Trainer, and bestselling author of
The Compassion Code (published as Laura Jack)

Loss can break us open in a way we never imagined. It can leave us questioning everything.

  • Maybe you’ve sought support, but you still feel stuck in your suffering.

  • Maybe you feel like a muted version of yourself.

  • Maybe you keep wondering: Who am I now?

Underneath it all lies the question: What do I do with this heartache?

The answer: more than you think. I believe the best thing we can do is release what is heavy, reclaim our light, and then rise as a LIGHThouse so others may find their way in the dark.

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Meet Laylani Colibri Jack (formerly Laura Jack)

Before I was a coach, a trainer, or an author, I was a daughter grieving, a woman searching, and a human learning how to feel.

In 2008, I lost my mother. Her death cracked something open in me, not just grief, but awakening.

Years later, in a moment when I felt lost and confused, I received a message that felt like both a whisper from my mom and a calling from my soul:

LOVE. loss. LOVE.

From that seed, everything grew.

I spent the first years finding my light again. Once I had, I began helping others do the same. I’ve supported thousands of people through the kind of loss that makes you question everything, as a coach, trainer, and speaker.

What I’ve seen again and again is that they weren’t broken. They were brokenhearted.

And the most beautiful part: as we heal and grow, supporting others gives our loss meaning... and we can honor both our loss and who we’re becoming.

Today, we’re creating LIGHThouses: steady, heart-centered humans who have done their inner work so they can guide others through the dark.

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The LIGHT Method™

A transformational journey for women who have been through loss and feel called to live fully again, and to help others do the same.

I was once told that you can only take others as far as you’re willing to go. So I went to the depths, and I will guide you step by step on a journey that took me years to walk myself.

Release what’s heavy: the suffering of loss.
Reclaim your values, your priorities, and your essence from this broken-open place.
Rise as a LIGHThouse, a guide for others through difficult times.

This is where your grief becomes your gift.

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In their own words…

  • “Laylani helped me move from overwhelming grief to not only surviving, but actually living again. She is one of a kind, a beautiful gift to all those finding their way through grief and heartbreak. I cannot imagine what my life would have been like if I had not worked with her, or who I would be.”


    ~ Michelle W., Mother, Grandmother, Nurse

  • “Working with Laylani is truly life-changing, if you are open to the possibility that grief isn’t something you must carry until forever. I didn’t know what I didn’t know about grief until she taught me. The clarity that comes from her guided exercises is staggering, and freeing. Not a week goes by that I don’t use one of the tools she taught me, for myself and often in my interactions with others.”

    ~ Sierra C., Marketing Leader & LIGHThouse Coach

  • “Even as a preacher and spiritual coach, after helping so many, I am still allowed to have moments when I need someone to hold space for me. After the LIGHT Method, I now understand: I can be tired without losing my light. Because of this journey, I can help more people. Thank you, Laylani, for the safe space, for the laughter, for the tears, and for your honesty.”

    ~ Rev. Velma M., Preacher, Spiritual Leader & LIGHThouse Coach

  • “I came to this experience because I needed a new purpose and a new way of moving in the world... Now I see that both the light and the dark were necessary for surviving and thriving, and I just needed the skills to heal the dark and express the light. Since starting this journey, I’ve become closer and closer to the person I want to be, and I am serving the purpose that I want to serve.”

    ~ Jenny B., Veterinarian, Grief Specialist & LIGHThouse coach

  • “As a surgeon, I built my identity around being steady under pressure. Working with Laylani, I didn’t just manage my anxiety. I healed the grief underneath it. I later left my surgical practice to coach other surgeons through what I went through. The positive changes have spilled over to benefit my family, friends, patients, and clients.

    ~ Melinda T., MD, Surgeon Coach & Graduate of The LIGHT Method

  • “Since starting this journey, I have learned that I am worthy, important and loved. I can now show up confidently for others. Turning pain into purpose has slowly become my mantra. I’ve worked hard, and I’ll continue this healing as long as there’s breath in my lungs.”

    ~ Janelle D., Grief Specialist, LIGHThouse Coach

  • "My husband has been deceased for many years, and Laylani helped me see that death didn't close the relationship, but that I could experience my heart newly in a way that has allowed me to move beyond that my painful loss. I feel myself growing daily in an unfolding awakening."

    ~ Geraldine H., Grief Recovery Specialist

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From Love. Through Loss. To Love Again.