Hi, I’m Laylani Colibri Jack— you may have known me previously as Laura Jack.
For more than 15 years, I’ve been devoted to guiding people through grief, transitions, and life’s messy in-betweens. What began with the loss of my mother grew into a calling: to help others move from merely surviving to truly thriving—with clarity, courage, and compassion.
Today, through The LIGHT Method™ and my book The Compassion Code, I support leaders, teams, and everyday humans in releasing what’s heavy and becoming steady LIGHThouses—able to lead and live with more light.
Many of these blog posts were originally published under my former name and older websites (laurajack.com and thecompassioncodeacademy.com). You may still see those graphics here and you can think of them as snapshots of the journey that led me to this brighter chapter as Laylani.
I’m so glad you’re here. May these words help you remember and share your light.
The Importance of Taking Care of Yourself First (Video)
In this video blog, I speak about the importance of redefining 'selfish' and taking care of yourself so you can give more to others. If we don't fill ourselves up first, we don't nourish ourselves or take proper care of ourselves, we become depleted, exhausted, and we have nothing left to give others, including our friends and family.